Life

Be Your Own Rock

Hey B,
My boyfriend just broke up with me. I love him so much and I don’t know how I will live without him. He is my rock. He said he wants to just be friends but I really want him back. I am doing everything he says he wants me to do but still he is mad at me. I don’t know what else I can do to show him how much I love him. I can’t live without him. How can I make him see how much I love him and take me back?
Country You Live In USA
Age 26
Sex Male

Hey,
This is always a tough situation to be in. I know that you love him and you feel like the world is ending right now but it isn’t. You will get through this. You have to learn to be your own rock. Don’t think of this as the end of your relationship, think of this as the beginning of a beautiful friendship. You have to decide would you rather have him in your life as a friend or not have him at all? Pushing him to be in a relationship with you and trying to be who he wants you to be rather than who you want to be is just going to push him away completely. I have been there it’s not easy but choosing to be friends means that you will always have him in your life. Don’t push him to get back together you two need to take this time to grow as individual people. Build your friendship become the person you want to be don’t do it for him do it for yourself. Build the life you want and if it is meant to be, he may come back to you, but if it is not then your love is still out there waiting for you to find him. I know its hard but sometimes things just don’t work out the way we want them to. You have to have faith that the universe has a plan for you and just follow the course and see where life takes you.

Have faith,

 

 

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